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I think Fresnelly has touched on something important. Jealousy and competition. It isn't a sign of insecurity as much as it is crossing into areas where many do not want to go. I would imagine this would be compounded in Sultana's case by the fact that they didn't discuss it to begin with.
I like to think that I am very secure in my relationship with my wife. But I can say that if we were out and she started to makeout with either another woman or another man, I'd be fairly upset.
Part of it would be the green monster of jealousy, but the main part would be (assuming again that we have not discussed this in advance) that she was acting erraticly. I would wonder if I had done something to provoke this sort of reaction (i.e. drive her into another's arms). I would wonder if she was looking to purposefully make me jealous. I would wonder why I didn't know that she was "into women" before now?
It's not cool to be on the receiving end of a surprise like that.
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