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I too am female and I am going to say you need to talk with her and decide how important your attandance is.
She should not force you, guilt you or badger you into going. As a reasonable adult she can say that religion is of utmost importance and it is something she wants you to convert to in order for you to continue being a couple. At this point you can decide to call it quits since you make it clear you are not into religion. She could also say that she understands your choice and not be mad at you anymore for not wanting to accompany her to Mass.
I like going to church, I dont mind going alone because its not like I can talk or anything anyway... I dont go a lot, I would never be mad if a future boyfriend of mine didnt want to go with me or whatnot.
You just have to decide kid, talk to her and get her exact stance. Its only fair to know what she wants, especially if you like her as much as you say.
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the voices in your head are not real--but they still have some really great ideas.
always remeber you can choose your friends, but you can't choose your family. But..you CAN choose the insane asylum where you have them all put away! 
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