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Originally Posted by onodrim
Heh cadre, I saw my name in your post and had to go back and re-read what I wrote myself because it's been so long!
I'm glad I did though because with time and new insight and experiences I'd have to adjust my thoughts a bit. I still identify myself as bi-sexual, but in a deeper sense as opposed to a purely sexual attraction. Now, I don't know that I could ever enter into a commited a relationship with a woman such as marriage, but I do believe that I could have a very serious and meaningful relationship with another woman aside from the sex itself. As Gilda very informatively pointed out, bisexuality seems to exist along a spectrum. I'd say I am likely around a 4 on that scale. I definintely have a stronger preference for men and imagine myself with a man as a life long partner. However, I am drawn to women on both an emotional and physical level and could easily hold a steady relationship with another woman.
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The way you describe it would make you a 2; bisexual but more attracted to the opposite sex. A 4 would be bisexual, but more attracted to the same sex.
I'm one of those who is definitely into fantasizing about sex with other partners in particular two or three women here at TFP, but would very likely not act on that because my commitment to my mate is so strong that it would feel like a betrayal.
Gilda