I have not had one and therefore I am only guessing what I would or would not do. I don't think I would ever tell my children if I had an abortion before they were born. I would not want them to think of the "what-if's" that I thought of when my mom told me she had 3 babies before my sister and I, none of them survived. I hated thinking "what if they did, would my sister and I not be here?". but then, on the other hand, it also made me understand why my mom was overprotective.
Well, maybe I would tell them if they find themselves in a similar situation. I'd want to show my support for whatever decision they make. I am not sure. It must be a tough thing to talk about.
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