Nothing wrong with that dude, I think the others might've misread your post stating that you're aiming to be with her through a process of breaking the couple up.
I can see what you're saying now, it's actually a good idea to build a relationship with her, give her a chance to see your attributes.
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If she was bored or unhappy with this guy, but really didn't see the point in leaving out of a perfectly understandable fear of change, then I would be someone on the otherside making it less scary.
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It doesn't really matter if you're there to help her fallout from her previous relationship. What makes this particular statement so errie is that you're acting as if you're stalking her, preparing to grab her once she becomes available. That's not a very good way to start a relationship with her, especially when she finds out that the whole time you were friends with her, you were aiming to be her boyfriend the whole time and that's just plain shadow.
You can't just try to make her realize that her relationship isn't as good as she perceive to be. She has to make the choice herself, period.