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Originally Posted by Marvelous Marv
Interesting to see the polar opposites, Ustwo and Gilda. I would have a hard time getting anything done if I spent as much time worrying as she does, and I can't think of a time when worrying accomplished anything positive for me.
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It does keep me from acting in social situations, but for the most part I get done what needs to be done. I just worry about doing it right or messing it up while I'm doing it.
There isn't much positive to it, though there can be. It's a motivator. If I'm worried about whether the doors are locked and the alarm turned on, and that causes me to go check doors and windows and the alarm, my family is a little bit safer than if I never worried about that and they occasionally got left off. If I'm worried about turning left across traffic or solid green lights, that causes me to be cautious and lessens the likelihood I'll cause an accident in those situations.
Worrying by itself has little benefit, but it can lead to actions which are beneficial.
Gilda