I would like to say that i don't think any posters in here are blaming "men" or saying everything is their fault.
i think that society perpetuates the image that this:
"insert skinny gorgeous model here" is what men want and that sometimes gets tied in with what women think men
actually want. We are responding to that image that the media puts out there for us.
As for me... no, i've never left someone because i didn't think they were "perfect" Like i've said... i look at the whole package.
My breakups have all happened because i was not compatible personality-wise with them, not because of any 'perfection' issue.
I expect the people i'm interested in to be
good, kind and intelligent people.
^^ those are my top qualities i look for, and if i'm also attracted to them physically, then wow, i'm sold on the person
any other ladies who would like to offer their thoughts?
sweetpea