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It took me a couple years to convince my SO to let me throw my John Hancock in there. And I was fine with it. I spent time talking with her about it, researching about it, bought some KY, and spent time gently poking a finger (make sure the nails are trimmed) and then another. Did that for the longest time until she was comfortable and then we tried. She was nervous the first time and I barely got the head in but that was fine. She was interested and we kept trying. Now, its a once a month thing. It was worth the time and effort...she's worth it.
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Life's jounney is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well-preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn-out shouting, "Holy sh*t! What a ride!" - unknown 
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