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Originally Posted by onodrim
Having said that, you also need to be ready for it mentally before you start anything. You said to you it's "wrong." I would suggest really making peace with this issue before going ahead with anything, otherwise you may just regret it in the end. Also, if you're tense, you're not gonna get very far, it's all about letting go and being relaxed. Tension in this case will likely equal pain. Don't do it until you're sure about it.
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Couldn't have said it better myself.
If you don't feel Totally comfortable with it... it's going to be a bad experience, being Tense and Anal sex Do NOT mix.
Give yourself a little time to think it over and as Ono suggested, try some anal play with either your partners' finger or perhaps a small sex toy.
Don't rush just because it's something your partner wants to do.
Let it happen, when Your ready.
sweetpea