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Porn is Porn. It's nice to look at... it's human nature in my opinion.
I look at it more than my husband does. We look at it together, we have sex sometimes with it on... we share it. We masturbate separately to it and together to it. We also have times where we don't have porn at all and we're just all about each other.
We didn't use to be this way ... because i was insecure about it and i was insecure with Myself. But i've grown alot as a woman and grown past the way i used to view myself and our relationship...
So what if your S.O. gets turned on by another woman (or you by another man) when you look at such images... that doesn't change your relationship or what you have together in the least.
Some people think porn is bad/immoral... and that's okay to reject it on that basis.
However....
If you don't think it's immoral and you're just rejecting it based on how it makes you Feel... then i would look further into WHY you're feeling that way.
Insecurity rears it's nasty head at the oddest times... recognize it and address Why you're feeling that way in your relationship... not the porn.
And even if he stopped looking at porn... it wouldn't change what the core issue you're having. I may be way off here.. but i suspect your feelings about porn is only a symptom of what might really be bothering you.
sweetpea
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