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I'm pretty afraid of it, too. I thought I would never ever want to have it (and I still haven't), but I have recently grown more and more curious and there were times when I had a regular partner that it didn't seem like it would be such a terrible idea. I just sort of plan on waiting until I both have the urge to try it again and have a willing & sensitive partner to try it with.
IMHO, you should have a talk with him and make sure you're doing it because you want to and that it's on your terms. I imagine you are also asking for some kind of technical advice here, but I can't really help you with that. Good luck!
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