I really agreed with this statement:
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Explaination and discussion is the key, the key to understanding boundries and it carries into adulthood, being able to discuss and accept direction is a huge part of life, it should really be instilled early on.
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I can't remember a series of books I read by Piers Anthony that always had double meanings and were pretty decent readings: Magic of Xanth, I think.
yeah, that's it, I googled one of the books I read:
the colror of her panties
If that's the right book, it's about the magic allure of panties.
My point: I bet a lot of young males are more excited by the presence of panties than the absence of them. Many don't know what's going on under those pants, so it's not like they are envisioning anything other than a big black memory hole. But slap an outline of the forbidden panties under there, and the imagination probably runs rampant.
I'm not advocating thongs, but probably more for hygeine reasons moreso than anything else if pressed to answer. But I would suggest that adults not project what they find sexually arousing into the minds of minors. What we might associate with sex, may not be for them. It really could be something as simple peer pressure, style, comfort, or even some vague notion of sexual behavior. And each of those reasons make their own unique calls for a sit-down talk with the child.