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Twelfthed, I think. My advice? NO.
My ex tried to help out his separated and soon-to-be exwife when she was stressed out about the other relationship she was in. I wasn't too worried because I knew we were good on our end. But she kept opening up wounds and throwing things back in his face. It only ended up being more hurt for him. And she did try to screw us up, but used more of what he said against him in custody stuff, I think. It really ends up hurting both parties because you have a person relying on you for their stress relief and/or resolving some issues from his/her past and it can affect the relationship with the person you're currently with. And yourself.
One just cannot be there for everyone else when there are other people and past emotional history involved. Does that make sense? Just no from me, sweetie.
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