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Originally Posted by billege
That’s not to say there’s not good emotion in the other ones (aside from the real amorous relationship), I’m sure there is. But I also think that, similarly perhaps to what supplecow touched on, a true polyamorous relationship would somehow be simultaneously all “primary.” Which I don’t see happening.
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My friend, whether or not you can see it happening, it does happen. There are many, many such relationships in the world. We don't appear to have one represented on this thread, but there are plenty of them out there, I promise you. I believe I know of one on TFP, but since none of the members have commented on this thread, I'll not "out" them.
Incidentally, my wife has sex with another person, regularly and enthusiastically, and it's fine with me. I know she loves me. I know she loves her. Her girlfriend and I satisfy different things for her. It's important to me that my wife be fulfilled in that way. I
encourage this. It wasn't always so--in fact, it took a lot of work on my part to get to this place about it. But I was always committed to being here (obviously, I guess, or I wouldn't have gone through all I needed to go through to get here).
There are more things in heaven and earth, billege, than are dreamt of in your philosophy. ;-)