soma, i'd take it as a complement that another guy finds your girl attractive, and drop it unless it becomes a real live actual problem. like he's stalking, calling, cooking her pets on the stove. now that..that's a problem. if you get out of kilter so easily because another guy is hitting on your girl, or because another guy has a good rapport with your girl that could be considered quasi-flirtatious, etc - you're going to do a combination pull-your-hair-out-shitting-bricks / drive-your-girl-away. it's not a good move; i really don't recommend it.
remember this: in general - if your girl wants to fuck someone else, she will. you're better off having it happen and you can move on - the relationship was already assed out. the jealousy / possessiveness stuff usually only drives her towards other guys, and i've very rarely seen it stop something from happening in the long run. plus it fucks with your head.
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