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Old 02-25-2006, 11:21 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by amonkie
If you take ANY course of action ... it is because SHE asked you to. She's told you that she is uncomfortable - you tell her that you care about her ... tell her that you want HER to tell YOU if she wants you to act. Otherwise... she's a big girl.... yes, people can be annoying but most likely her ignoring the comment or saying "back off" herself will be much more effective that somone else intervening and making the situation bigger.

I agree. Some girls want their guys to stand up for them, some feel better if they do it themselves. Just let her know that if she needs you, you are there. Otherwise just leave it alone.
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