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SAM821 · 02-23-2006, 08:51 PM

This is very difficult to give an evaluation on because LOVE is so generally used for a wide variety of feelings. This is how i see it. If you truly love someone, absolutely are devoted and emotionally attached, then you cannot give your love to anyone else. NO ONE!

The reason for this is because love is unconditional. If you are truly in love, you will not want to share any other emotions with another person. The reason people tend to do this while they are in love or married, etc., is because they are lacking things with their loved one. Lacking something that perhaps they find with someone else. This can lead to a man/woman wanting to find something, perhaps even unintentionally. They meet someone that has these 'needs' and then an interest develops. From that interest spawns a love to those specific needs.

This is where problems occur. See, you can 'love' your wife/gf, and be emotionally attached or even love another person at the same time, but the problem is that you are only loving bits and pieces. I feel you cant share yourself the same exact way with two different people. Its just impossible...

Now, AMOROUS love, in my mind is more of a lust than a love. This can still mean that a person is emotionally attached to more than one person, and easily sexually attracted as well. Of course this is definitly possible, but I do not think this that type of love can coexist with 'ultimate love'. Again, if you are 100% in love with someone, then you will have no interest in being emotionally attracted with another. You see?

Its such a fine line, but I think i made myself clear. You can say the words I love you, but I dont think you can mean them if you are into another person as well. Its basically artifical. Unfortunately Man was designed to spread the seeds to many mates. So being that we humans are still 'animals', desires get in the way of the love. Its very difficult to achieve unconditional love. But if you do achieve it, you will know you are in love because no other man/woman can ever capture your interest if you are truly IN LOVE with your wife/gf.

02-23-2006, 08:51 PM	#26 (permalink)
SAM821 Surviving Hurricanes Location: Miami, Florida	This is very difficult to give an evaluation on because LOVE is so generally used for a wide variety of feelings. This is how i see it. If you truly love someone, absolutely are devoted and emotionally attached, then you cannot give your love to anyone else. NO ONE! The reason for this is because love is unconditional. If you are truly in love, you will not want to share any other emotions with another person. The reason people tend to do this while they are in love or married, etc., is because they are lacking things with their loved one. Lacking something that perhaps they find with someone else. This can lead to a man/woman wanting to find something, perhaps even unintentionally. They meet someone that has these 'needs' and then an interest develops. From that interest spawns a love to those specific needs. This is where problems occur. See, you can 'love' your wife/gf, and be emotionally attached or even love another person at the same time, but the problem is that you are only loving bits and pieces. I feel you cant share yourself the same exact way with two different people. Its just impossible... Now, AMOROUS love, in my mind is more of a lust than a love. This can still mean that a person is emotionally attached to more than one person, and easily sexually attracted as well. Of course this is definitly possible, but I do not think this that type of love can coexist with 'ultimate love'. Again, if you are 100% in love with someone, then you will have no interest in being emotionally attracted with another. You see? Its such a fine line, but I think i made myself clear. You can say the words I love you, but I dont think you can mean them if you are into another person as well. Its basically artifical. Unfortunately Man was designed to spread the seeds to many mates. So being that we humans are still 'animals', desires get in the way of the love. Its very difficult to achieve unconditional love. But if you do achieve it, you will know you are in love because no other man/woman can ever capture your interest if you are truly IN LOVE with your wife/gf. Last edited by SAM821; 02-23-2006 at 09:51 PM..