Abaya, I wanted to say I think you and I are on much the same page; it sounds like what you have with ktspktsp is much like what my SO and I have.
I do think it is a continuum of choices: I choose my SO and I choose to only be with him.
The other thing that I've seen a lot in this thread that bothers me is the idea that society has dictated that we (my SO and I, or other mono couples) be monogamous. No, it was our choice. We discussed many alternatives before committing to monogamy. Society has never forced me, of all people, to do anything. Just ask my mother.
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