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Originally Posted by Plaid13
sounds more like a mental thing then anything. stressed out? happy with the relationship? Feel guilty about anything? you sure your totaly comfortable with her? Trust her? Now for the really stupid question that needs to be asked anyway. Are you attracted to her physicaly?
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These were my thoughts as well. If you haven't had a physical problem using a condom in the past, than that's likely not the cause now either. Sex is highly mental, so take a real deep look at your relationship and find out where the problem might lie. The only other thing I can think of - did you switch to a different brand or type of condom than you've used in the past? If so, perhaps there is something about that brand/type that is causing you trouble. But from the information you've provided, I'm guessing it's a mental issue you have going on.
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