I've given the "lets just be friends" line a couple of times, but I've always meant it. I'm still friends with everyone I've dated.
If girls have a "bitch shield" then don't talk to them. They're not "weeding out the pussies" as you suggest. They're probably either what you call a bitch, or aren't attracted to you.
And don't forget, she may actually be confused as to what to do. She may be attracted to both you and the other guy, and may not be ready to choose. Pushing things will make the choice easier for her though.
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