Forget what you've seen on TV -- those are actors -- that's not reality... the only thing that matters is what you and he do at the time
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3-It's probably a bit of both.. getting caught up in the moment, and also trying to get as into it as possible working to climax! It's probably partly mental.. just wanting to... to let him know he is pleasing me... but i guess i just need advice perhaps how to let go.. if i am holding back?!
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if what he's doing feels good... tell him... at the time... I'm sure he'll appreciate it...
How to let go? Work onclearing your mind andjust focus on what's happening at that moment.. not what he's goig to do next or whether you will or will not have an orgasm...
Oh and if he's telling you that you've got puppy fat - that's got to stop - is he making you self conscious about what you look like... that makes it harder for you to get you where you want to go...