If I to need project complete inner peace with myself and total confidence with who I am to attract a woman, then forget it. I'm going to go join the priesthood. I don't think you could possibly be really close to someone (friend or otherwise) who is perfectly at peace with everything in their life... they have no need for you. Friends and loved ones are supposed to depend on each other, interlock, bond, unite, become one. If you seek a person who defies that, I think you are being quite foolish. I also think it's foolish if a woman is looking for their male friends to be completely asexual around them. It's unfair to ask someone to strip down a part of themselves for you to be their friend. You should be accepting of who they are. Women are not the only ones with morals. I personally have made my choice to only involve myself sexually with a girl only after I knew I loved her, but does that mean I have to hide my sexuality and show it only to a woman I came to love? I have female friends who I am attracted to, but consider them nothing more than friends, I certainly do not hide the fact that I am a sexual person who recognizes their sexuality as well, and we get along fine, but thats only two girls in my life so far... and they are currently far away and I can't spend time with either of them now. I'm finding it diffuclt to create that kind of relationship again.
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Here are some phrases I'd like to be able to say, in all honesty, before I die.
"That's it, send out the ninjas!"
"So then I had to kill my way to the second floor."
Last edited by MEAD; 02-19-2006 at 05:21 PM..
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