taboo

If you want to move a relationship forward with someone that you love who you already have a serious relationship with, it's obvious that you have to think about many things before making that big decision. You have to weigh the character with the baggage that comes with a person, and see how much of a sacrifice you're willing to make. How much that person is worth sacrificing so many things.. If you decide not to continue a serious relationship with someone you love but have too many issues with (from that person's past, which effects their life to this day every day), does it mean you don;t love them?

I don;t think it does. But I'm curious what you all think of this.. Some people tend to have very divided views on this. Because, when you decide you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you have to see how many sacrifices you're willing to make for that person, but you also have to look out for your own good. (sounds bad but it;s true). They say you sacrifice everything for love, but it's also a lot about realistic compatibility. And someone's habits ect can really affect your life..