Originally Posted by Sultana

And the motivation behind the statement means as much as well.

You are being informed, gently and non-judgementally, that that is a term that brings Real Pain to Real People. What you choose to do with that knowledge is up to you, and yes, I will make judgements on your (and others') character(s) accordingly.

And if it's negative (i.e., fit's within the parameters I would classify as jack ass), I will likely politely keep it to myself, because to do otherwise would be rude, and could possibly cause you pain, and *I* wouldn't want to do that.