It sounds like it's time to let go if she says her heart is not in it. Also, since she really didn't come out and tell you about it right off the bat is probably a bad sign. It means she was trying to hide it. I've learned the hard way that little phrases like that are a sign that they want out but are being wishy washy. Kissing someone else is not that bad though it definitely is a betrayal. Good relationships thrive on honesty and being up front when a mistake is made. I would probably follow Big Ben's advice. But, if you do stay together, well at least she didn't have sex with them.
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