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Originally Posted by match000
Umm, it's because I don't want the girl to think I'm hitting on her. You see, I'm inexperienced so when I am talking to a girl in an attractive way its usually flirty. If I stop being flirty to a girl I usually just come across as dead-boring. So... the problem is I want to be friends with her but I'm used to being flirty with girls but I don't want her to think I'm trying to take her away from her BF. So I just back off totally.
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The problem with that is when that happens, I think "Oh, so he just wanted to get into my pants after all and had absolutely no interest in anything I said." Oh well. Catch 22 I guess. I see where you are coming from. However, I usually have a pretty good idea when someone is interested in me and I usually preempt the whole situation by avoiding them. I also do the same when I find someone attractive and am in a relationship. I'd rather not be tempted.