Very nice, BigBen.
I'd just like to add:
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She also said that our sexual activities, as limited as they were, were damaging. She had talked about stopping them, and i underestimated the effect they had, and tried to almost talk her out of stopping, which i am so ashamed about in retrospect.
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1. Do NOT be ashamed about your sexuality. This is her hangup, not yours. Sexual/sensual acts between two trusting, consenting adults (this is my own value judgement here) should be a wonderful, communing, sharing experience; especially in a long relationship. It's a way of expressing your love to one another, as well as being a fun activity to enjoy
. I'm just trying to say her perception of sex in your relationship as harmful is only true because she made it so.
2. Listen to bigben
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She also becomes crazy about skiing, which is ok, i guess - can't say i'm a huge fan, but i've not experienced it really - only once.
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This is natural behavior, and is unrelated to your relationship. Enthusiasm for skiing directly correlates with exposure to the sport.