Originally Posted by Sage

Finding "Mr. Right" is a much harder task than finding "Mr. Right Now." Often in our search for love and accepance we (as emoting, sexual beings- man and woman) choose the person who is right in front of us giving us a little bit of positive emotion instead of choosing to wait until we find someone who will give us all of the positive emotion that we need. We accept baggage, difficult situations, impossibilities and the ilk because we have convinced ourselves we are no good and therefore must have someone to love us. Sex is not love, attention is not love, presents are not love, presence is not love. Those are are a part of love, but they do not make up the whole.