Okay, I am calling up this thread from the dead...
Ktspktsp and I tried anal again on Saturday, and I finally enjoyed it!!!
We tried it twice last spring, but both times felt very uncomfortable and almost painful. I was trying very hard to relax but just couldn't do it... even though he started with fingers, then moved to dildoes, then dick... with lots of lube... but it was still too much for me.
We tried it again sometime in December, when I was drunk...
and damn, I was so relaxed that we didn't even need to progress through the dildoes. He put in his cock and I could actually take it, though I was't enjoying it yet. At least I could tolerate it. This happened again a couple of weeks ago when I was feeling particularly relaxed and lazy... wanted to let him try again. It wasn't uncomfortable at all, and him giving me a good vibrator helped me stay relaxed.
Finally, last weekend we tried it again, and this time he warmed me up with a very productive hand reaching around to my clit (I was on my stomach). He kept this going the whole time, and though it was slightly uncomfortable at first (as usual), I relaxed as he kept working his hand and the dick. I thought I was going to cum just from the manual stimulation alone... it was so intense that I didn't care which hole his dick was in. It felt GOOD.
I was so glad to finally be able to enjoy full-on anal... it has taken a long time to get myself used to it!!
Now, I wouldn't say I'll be begging for it daily, since I just like to be fucked vaginally most of the time. But now that anal doesn't hurt and might even feel good (as long as he keeps up the excellent manual work)
I feel more comfortable about trying it once in a while.
