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Old 01-28-2006, 02:05 AM   #21 (permalink)
Zyr
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Originally Posted by The_Jazz
As far as your point goes, I think that it basically boils down to the fact that the object of affection (in the case of pedophila) can only be a victim.
I have to say I disagree with this. However, the age of consent is nessacery, as it would be hard if not impossible to determine whether or not the minor truely understood what they were doing when they consented. My point is that they may in fact know what they are doing. But no one else could really know, and we have to protect those that can't protect themselves.

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Originally Posted by AUS2003
The final thought I had, and have no idea about the answer is: If a pedophile had a real girlfriend/boyfriend relationship growing up in their early teens, would they still be so interested in young girls?
If a homosexual had a hetrosexual relationship growing up in their early teens, would they still be homosexual?
(OK, yes, I know, bringing up homosexuality again. Once more, I'm just trying to use a group that has an different sexual preference than the majority of the population, but is acceptable.)

I think it's just an attraction. It's not something they can control. While it's true that victims of child abuse are more likely to grow up and abuse children themselves, perhaps leading to the conclusion that pedophilia is caused by outside influences, I think this is more a control thing, a predator/prey thing, than a genuine sexual attraction.
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