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Originally Posted by Gilda
Just like I don't feel content with my life, even though I should.
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There's that word again... Stop worrying so much about what you SHOULD feel instead focus on what wouold make you content... which I think is a much better choice of words than happy, by the way. Focusing on what should happen will drive a person crazy... we all should do certain things...
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Originally Posted by Gilda
Now comes the really hard part, acting on that.
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you can do whatever you put your mind to... you attended several parties this past holiday season that you didn't think you'd otherwise be able to... you found it somewhere inside you to do it... and not to sound shallow, but you looked amazing int he process... and not to sound shallow again, but if a source of strength for you is to buy yourself a new therapy dress... and go to therapy in that dress... well - it's a perfectly valid reason to shop...