Okay well this thread keeps getting brought back up. I havent posted in here since Dec. 7th so Ill give a little update.
Basically I made this thread to get an okay not to call this girl.
It really got awkward at times, and me thinking that I should almost call this girl so she gets the hint.
She would insanely call me, probably 2-3 times a week and never leave me a message. Although sometimes she would text message me.
ON CHRISTMAS DAY I GOT A TEXT SAYING "MERRY CHRISTMAS" - so that is like a month after the date.
the next day I got another text saying "what the hell is going on? I would like an answer pls!"
This is when I thought that this girl was psycho! Goes back to my original post, about me thinking this girl was a little needy.
I never mentioned that I met one of her friends the first night I met her, and found out later by run in, (before date) that the friend goes to my school.
I also got a call and message from her friend on Dec 27 (day after "what the hell" text above). the message told me when said dates B-day was and what they were doing, and that I should come.
I think I was reading into the crazyness of this a little too much, thinking "is this girl lying to her friends and pretending that we actually are going out"
"why is this friend calling me?"
etc...
Then I I ran into this friend at schol on the day of date's B-day. Jan 4th I think this was. This was the first time I have since the date. She asked me what was going on. I didnt really feel it was a good Idea at the time to tell her friend that I didnt think it would of worked out. So I just said I was out of town (truth)
she asked if I was coming out for the B-day. I told her I was busy and couldnt (truth)
so she just told me to call her friend and wish her a happy b day. (which I didnt)
the next day I get a text from the date saying "hey whats up? long time no talk" (to which I didnt reply).
I havent heard from either of them since, and hope that I dont for a really long time.
In the end I figure in future instances I will just call and get things over with right away.
But I stand on my issue that I know this wouldnt of worked out and that this girl is needy and now also physco to me.
I asked some of my girlfriends in RL that after one date do you have to call and let them know it didnt work out? they told me no. So I dunno.
Sorry I know this is sorta long of a post.