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Originally Posted by little_tippler
The intelligent women will be the ones who don't "go with the crowd". For example, I like to take my time choosing or doing things. I will often be alone calmly going about my business. I will take as long as I need to get something right for me. If there is a crowd, I will be the person walking a little faster and efficiently managing my way out of a crowd and placing myself apart from them. I won't be the person almost falling into the train line to see if the train is coming, I will be the person standing back behind others waiting patiently - I hate to have others standing behind me breathing down my neck. I will smile to myself in public because I have my own little world and don't care about what others think. I am not always talking, I often will be the person in a group listening attentively and when answering I will choose my words carefully. This may seem a strange way to say it but I think intelligent women are more pondered and calm. I guess this may come off as arrogant but that's how I feel about it. I hope I don't sound nuts and some other girls can identify with this! lol
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OMG, you just described ME! I avoid crowds, too, even when I'm driving.
CoachAlan, there's lots of good ideas here. Also keep in mind what Impetuous1 said: "I think when you're at a place in your life where you are happy that you then attract more happiness." When you feel good about yourself, you will attract more good in life, people, and good in general. It's that whole you-get-back-what-you-give-out thing; it's really true.