Impetuous1

I totally agree with what Martel said. The first time I had sex I was 18 and it was the worst sex ever. I didn't get comfortable with it until I was 19 and at that time I had a great partner who let me be myself. By that time too, I was more comfortable with my own body and was over all the preconceived ideas I had about sex.

I also see where ratbastid is coming from too. It sounds like she basically told you she doesn't like getting oral and having intercourse. But, you still haven't said whether you asked her why she doesn't like sex. It just sounds like you were complaining that you didn't like the amount of sex you were getting. This girl definitely has some serious hangups that she is refusing to confront and unfortunately, virgins are hard work. If it were me, I guess I would give her up too. Too much work.