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Originally Posted by TheBrit
We've spoken since, but not seen each other. She's made it clear that I could still have her if I wanted, and that there would be sexual contact, but I couldn't perform oral sex on her, and we wouldn't be having sex.
The ball's entirely in my court, so to speak.
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Um. So what's over? I don't get it.
Here's what it looks like from over here on the outside. It looks like you were pressuring her to do things she (for whatever reason--that's really beside the point) didn't want to do. She went and talked to her mom and who knows who else about it, got some reassurance, and now she's come back and laid down her boundaries in an absolutely no-nonsense way.
Looked at like that, this could be seen as a positive development for your relationship.