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Originally Posted by TheBrit
To put it bluntly, my girlfriend has such a low sex drive that it's driving me crazy.
It's giving me a terrible self esteem, vicious cravings for satisfaction and I feel like packing it all in.
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I know how you feel. I don't feel as confident as I used to when he loved to fuel my drive.
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Originally Posted by TheBrit
She'll happily give me a hand job, oral if I'm lucky but since about September that's the most I've got. It's incredibly hard to feel good about yourself when you've been going out with a girl for 1.5 years who just isn't interested in sex at all.
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Sometimes I feel I have to beg to get it when he doesn't feel like it or is too tired (which is all the time). It seems he used to like it more when he had less access to me. Now that he can have me whenever, he takes it for granted.
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Originally Posted by TheBrit
She's doing things for me to make me happy, but it really isn't enough.
I know that it's not true, I know that she wouldn't do this, but it does make me feel like she's playing around with me and just leaving me hanging on.
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He too makes me happy in many ways. He's sweet, caring and affectionate, but he has no interest in satisfying my carnal needs. Sometimes he'll grope my breasts, or my ass, yet later, not want to do anything beyond that. I feel like a puppet sometimes. I think I need to liberate myself of all of this.
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Originally Posted by TheBrit
I don't know if I want her to try harder though, I certainly don't want to force her into doing things she doesn't enjoy.
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I have come close to the point wherE I don't want to pursue the issue anymore. I feel like I've lost any taste for it since he makes it so hard for me to get. I don't feel like I should 'make' a man pleasure me, and lately, this is all it's been --him doing it just to get it over with...
Cheers.[/QUOTE]