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joemc, I have led a spectacularly active sexlife and had the same thing happen about a year ago with an especially hot chick that I *absolutely craved*. I consider myself very much the master of my own faculties, destiny, etc, but this episode schooled me.
I'd be hammering away like a trooper, porn star style for an hour, feeling like it was backed up behind the Hoover dam. All very impressive at first, then just annoying.
Other times I'd go off half cocked, then other times I'd get boner failure!
Amazing, and thoroughly depressing/frustrating/embarrassing.
The lesson is, as explained by other above, that this is all mental.
As for the 'getting to ejaculation' methodology, it helps me to picture all the girls I have ever fucked. I recall the images of all my own cumshots. I see the blowjobs and the doggy style moneyshots, and the pearl necklaces. Needless to say, they are all loving it. Just picturing that always gets me though if I am hammering away with no result or find myself on the receiving end of an endless blowjob. With the latter, I lie back and say to myself "she's a good girl, she's worked hard, let her have what she wants." As perverted as that might sound, it *is* what she wants: your satisfaction.
Apologies if that was too much for some of you folks, this is a really annoying problem and our man is clearly in need of a little help.
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