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Originally Posted by TheBrit
She's too uptight to actually relax and get into things, she won't let me go down on her because she's afraid of how she'll seem to me, if I'm helping her in other ways she wants to know if it's boring for me, if her being wet is disgusting to me, etc. I can't seem to reassure her otherwise. The more I think about this, the more it's possibly a problem.
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I think this is a really good place to examine why she might not be interested. She's uncomfortable about sex; it stands to reason that she wouldn't enjoy it much. I would focus on why she has these opinions; associating sexual arousal with "disgusting" isn't going to get y'all into a happy sex life. Good luck.