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It's not that they dont see you, they do. However if you are new to societies the VERY minor things are the killers.
Mantus hits a bunch of them. How you sit tells a lot about a person (right or wrong).
Hunched over can mean:
- Upset, not happy with the world, leave me alone
- Low self-esteem
- Indecisive
- Introverted, doesnt like much interaction with others
Sitting upright means the exact opposite generally. There's a big connotation of closing oneself off to the world when (especially in a restaurant) you're hunched over looking into your menu. As an ex-waitor I can attest it's easy to pick up on that as a waitstaff, and they generally learn that those hunched like that want as little interaction as possible. It goes past the general consideration because how others like their service directly affects their income. If you look them in the eye and give a small smile they will almost always reciprocate (some might not depending on their mood).
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