I have needs too...
To put it bluntly, my girlfriend has such a low sex drive that it's driving me crazy.
It's giving me a terrible self esteem, vicious cravings for satisfaction and I feel like packing it all in.
She'll happily give me a hand job, oral if I'm lucky but since about September that's the most I've got. It's incredibly hard to feel good about yourself when you've been going out with a girl for 1.5 years who just isn't interested in sex at all. She's doing things for me to make me happy, but it really isn't enough.
I know that it's not true, I know that she wouldn't do this, but it does make me feel like she's playing around with me and just leaving me hanging on.
It's really culminated in me mentioning that I don't think she wants me any more, us having a bit of a row over the phone, her hanging up on me (with me not saying not to I suppose) and then she phoned me up 15 minutes later, tearful, offering to try harder.
I don't know if I want her to try harder though, I certainly don't want to force her into doing things she doesn't enjoy.
I'm not sure why I'm making this post, I don't really expect anybody to post "mix this herb with this root and she'll be all over you", I'm not looking to make her do something she doesn't want to, I just need to vent a little. Any suggestions would be welcome though.
Cheers.
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