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Well I think ngdawg's idea of video taping her is the way to go. Maybe having a friend take some footage from afar without her noticing and then set something up when you get home. It is true, at least for me anyways about reverting to denial when being confronted. If she could see herself and her actions in a sober state, it might be all you need to knock her back to her senses. A "self relalization" moment if you will. As for your end of the deal, I do not think you are being the asshole or stick in the mud. You are simply looking out for her well being. If guys are indeed grapping her and making lude comments then you have every right to step in and say something. It doesnt sound as she has been unfaithful or given you much reason that she would be, so my advice to you would to try to be a bit more trusting, but keep one eye open so to speak when she's out and involved with alcohol. Its a shitty feeling no doubt, but if she can realize what her behavior is doing to you and make changes to help, then you both will come out closer and better off.
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