They will know....eventually. Long before 8. I recommend honest answers to quiestions......but wait till they ask. Once the situation is relatively clear to kids....tell them its a VERY important secret. If you attempt to hide it, or lie to them....it becomes taboo, and no kid in this world can resist such things.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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