It all depends on the relationship. I don't know how long the latest one will take. It's a bit hard to make a guess at this point. And since this was my first serious relationship, I can't really put anything else out there.
Non-serious, I was usually over day of. I classify my relationships in two categories. Some are just two people having fun with no real long-term plans involved and some are the sort that you think could be forever. For the first type, it's easy for me to walk away because I knew from the beginning that it had to end sooner or later, so I can honestly just be glad for the good times I had. The second kind...
well, how do you get over that exactly? That's the sort of relationship that changes you, as a person. So it's not as if you can just go back to where you were beforehand. I'm still learning about that one.
Not gonna vote, because I reckon every situation is unique.
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I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said
- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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