Either way you go your going to feel bad about having your brother over, but what about you? Are they not hurting you by having your brothers and sisters with them, and not being able to come and visit you? When it comes down to it your parents are the ones causing the problems by not accepting you and your sisters choices. Don't feel bad about hurting your parents by having your brother over to visit you for Christmas, feel bad about enjoying there pain. Then it becomes a way to hurt them not a way to enjoy the holidays with your family.
As far as your brother and Sissy goes take your time. The fact that he is coming over shows that he is coming to accept the change more. I imagine it would be pretty different seeing your brother that you shared so much in common with as your sister. He'll come around in time.
Oh yeah have a good Christmas!! Honestly enjoy it, you deserve it.
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