I have found that if I'm focussed on what he's doing, nothing happens. Some things work very easily, including fantasizing while he's at work(closing my eyes and 'seeing' what's happening that way for some reason makes it hotter) or working on HIM, ie: 69 or,(this works 99,9% of the time, for me at least), giving a bj and being 'played with' as I do. Like Mal the Wise said, sex is 90% mental-let yourself go and wonderful things can happen. Too much concentration and thinking will kill it every time.
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