Sex drive can definitely decrease by being stressed and tired.
There are many good tips up there, especially from Seaver. Ratbastid also scores in with the communication aspect. There may be an underlying reason. Or, maybe she doesn't realize that her lack of wanting sex is affecting you in a negative way.
I have been in slumps at times. I read somewhere, I don't remember where, that having more sex increases your desire for sex. She may need to push herself at first, but once she starts getting it more, she'll want it more. Also, if possible, try to not engage in sex only at bedtime. At the end of a long day, I generally like to go to bed and go to sleep. While sex is usually at that time, it's nice to have it at other times of the day too. She may feel that sex is more of a duty and not enjoy it as much if it is put off until bedtime.
Obviously, you know your wife and the ins and outs of your relationship better than us, but that's my insight and some experiences that I have had with sex and lack of sex drive.
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