Ok again, not one of the ladies, but I've had my share of experiance and I have been with the same woman now for 14 years (8 married).
You sound very much like I feel at times. I want it more often, I have to initiate it, but once it starts shes really into it.
While I used to think it was stress and work, that didn't turn out to be it. For us it was mostly hormone issues. While on the pill her sex drive diminished. After she had a child her sex drive was nill. After she cut down on the breast feeding it shot up again, and she was on the mini-pill. Problem is the mini-pill is not very effective if you are not breast feeding, so she went back to the pill (lower dose) and her sex drive started to diminish a bit. Shes going to try the ring method starting next month as that is the lowest dose, to see if that helps out.
Womens sex drives can be very fragile and fickle things, just because we found our problem doesn't mean its also yours.
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