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Originally Posted by miko
YES! I forgot to mention this. Her work days are VERY stressfull. And mine are not at all. But I can't say things really change when on vacation either. Maaaaaybe slightly but hardly.
And thanks, Seaver. Lots of good stuff there. Things we tend to forget about. I'm sure I'm partly to blame for lack of interest. But we have talked about it and some of it does seem physical (in her mind) but maybe that's a big part of it too... her mind.
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At least you understand that sex is a shared responsibility, for lack of a better term. If her job is stressful --that in and of itself is reason to not have an anticipatory interest in sex. Maybe sex is seen more as a chore, not necessarily because of you, but rather the act itself can be draining.