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Originally Posted by Seaver
Well there's lots of tricks.
First off, you should never ask a woman for sex. Give her a good, long, sensual kiss to start things off (6seconds no tongue at first). Just take it slow with her. The longer she has to warm up the more she'll think about sex (and want it).
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Coming from one female perspective, I agree that anticipation reinforces a 'bigger' orgasm. Fourplay? Yes most definitely.
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Originally Posted by Seaver
Try using her mind (it IS her largest sex organ). Take her out for a nice dinner, tell her all the things that made you fall in love with her. How her smile made your heart sink the first time you saw her. How she has a sparkle in her eyes when she looks at you. All the good stuff you used to think every day (and used to tell her) when you two were first in love. Maybe it's not just a hormonal problem, maybe she just wants to be romanced again.
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Glad you addressed this as well seaver. Many times, the relationship becomes too complacent that the wooing part of it has nearly diminished. Some males think it's redunduncy but romance never gets old with us --even if we have heard it over and over and over again. It's important to us that you STILL feel that way.
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Originally Posted by Seaver
Every once in a while when you two are together, whisper what you're thinking in her ear. Tell her how when she wears that skirt (that she's wearing) you want to just lift it up and take her from behind. When you're at a black tie/dress event, that the way she looks drives you crazy and you cant wait to take her home (while at the event).
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Again, anticipation.....works wonders..and trust me, all that time we take to get ready for such events, it's usually meant for you (the men in our lives) to see and enjoy, everything else is just extraneous.
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Originally Posted by Seaver
Try some different positions. The lotus is great for women, when done right it will hit her clitorus and G-spot at the same time (and you wont come quickly since you're sitting).
Or when you are having sex missionary style, move your hips up laterally (so your hips are directly above hers. Your penis will bend around her pubic bone, this rubs her clitorus while normal missionary hardly touches it at all.
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On the dot! The Lotus position works great....Anything where we're made to straddle in a certain fashion. For some reason counters work great too, but that's largely contingent on height and other such factors. Standing up against walls work well if he can lift and position you correctly --