Ok, i need some sex advice. Somewhat typical situation where I want it all the time and my wife doesn't. If it was up to her and i never said a thing about it, we would probably have it once a month. But i manage to get once a week out of her and some play inbetween if I'm lucky. But i have to ask and the "yes" is never a heartfelt one. Now the weird thing is that it's like she's missing the hormones that make us horny to begin with. Or whatever makes us think about sex. She tried taking testosterone (doctor recommended) but that didn't really do anything. And when we do have sex it's usually pretty good. Sometimes not good, but that's rare. It's like once we get into things, she wakes up. With stimulation she can cum every time, usually multiple times. But general screwing with no clitoral stimulation doesn't really feel good. Or if it does it's just for a couple minutes then she loses feeling. But at least we know she doesn't have any problem achieving orgasm. So i'm quite confused. I don't know if it's mental or physical or what. In the very beginning of our relationship we were like rabbits. But that was like 7 years ago. And i don't like having sex with someone just because they let me. I want them to want it, ya know? And it's frustrating for her too. But it's been like this for so long that she will openly say she doesn't like sex. (And it doesn't help that some of the older ladies she works with have the same feeling about it.) Even though like i said she can achieve orgasm pretty easily. Which would mean to me that it feels good and what's not to like about something that doesn't feel good? Oh and she does mention that she has to really concentrate for it to feel good and for her to come, when I think she just needs to relax and go with it. Normal position for her is military with her eyes closed while i do all the work making sure it's all about her and making sure it feels good for her. Feeling good for me is pretty much a given so i don't have to worry about that. But I do wish SHE would fuck ME, ya know? Put in some effort of her own instead of just concentrating on getting herself off. But then again, if it's not going to feel good for her....
Any of you ladies have similiar experiences or can offer any help/suggestions?
Sorry if I sound like a typical male idiot. I'm just really confused.
